How To Begin Your Solo Travel Journey
Embracing The ‘Solo Traveler’ Mindset
August 31, 2021
Traveling solo is not easy, but it is worth it.
If you are here today, then it’s safe to say that you are looking into the idea of traveling solo and you are wondering, “How do I do it?”, and “What does it feel like?”
One thing I will tell you right now is that I’m proud of you.
You are already an empowered human by simply thinking of taking such a cool, wanderlust challenge!
So, here are my solo travel mindset tips and tricks to get you started on the right path to your first solo adventure!
How to Start Traveling On Your Own
MANIFEST AND BELIEVE
First things first — Begin by manifesting and believing that solo travel is something that you CAN do.
A lot of people would say they could never do it and when asked ‘why?’, they will usually respond with something along the lines of thinking it’s crazy and unsafe.
But maybe think about the possibility that they just don’t like the idea of being lonely, or out of their comfort zone, in a place super far from home.
As solo travelers, it’s important to admit that these are valid reasons for not feeling 100% comfortable with traveling alone! But if you have the desire to try it, the first thing you need to do is make sure you don’t drag yourself down by these thoughts.
Now, I’m being honest when I tell you that the potential of feeling lonely and unsafe during my solo trip is always a concern of mine too.
I can guarantee you that you aren’t alone on that as many other women solo travelers think about this too.
I hope it helps to let you know that it’s nothing but normal to have that reaction because, to be honest, feeling lonely can happen ANYTIME, not only when you are traveling.
Read that again: Feeling lonely can happen ANYTIME, not only when you are traveling.
The key is to remember that “lonely” is a feeling and not a state of being. And as far as feeling unsafe, there are ways to prepare and mitigate potential situations.
That said, the feeling of loneliness may will most likely come at you while traveling. But I can assure you that if you give the feeling the space and time that it needs to show up, instead of trying to push it down to avoid it, the feeling will also go away just. as. fast.
Solo traveling and sightseeing the beautiful valley of Lauterbrunnen, Switzerland
RESEARCH
Dreams don’t work unless you do.
Although manifesting and believing is a huge part of realizing your solo travel goals, you have to put in the work in the research phase to make it the best experience for you.
Research requires you to truly take your time.
Since this would be your first solo trip, you don’t want to just wing it even if it overwhelms you! Take bite-sized steps to get all the information you need by reading blogs, travel tips, or saving inspirational Pinterest boards will help you feel more organized, safe, and less stressed about being in a new place.
Not only that but you will also benefit from finding cheaper flights and lodging!
You can’t deny that this is the PERFECT recipe to become well-prepared mentally and emotionally to travel on your own.
If you start to feel a bit of anxiety thinking about planning your solo trip, then giving yourself a lot of time. Don’t rush it! Get familiar with the idea and visualize yourself making it a reality.
Enjoying a break along the riverbank somewhere in the highlands of Scotland
TAKING ACTION & FLIGHT
Now, this is the real deal. The last step to get you ready for your solo travel adventure.
You are one step closer to taking on a solo trip that will most likely awake a part of you that you never knew existed! An adventure that will change your perspective and your life for the better.
Having done your research and gotten familiar with safety tips (like sharing your plans with a close family member or a friend), you are now prepared to land in a new city or country on your own.
Will you feel 100% ready? Maybe…but maybe not and that’s okay!
The reality is that no one will ever feel 100% ready, ever. The key is to be prepared as much as you can and when you begin the solo travel journey you will realize you were more ready than you could have ever thought!
Traveling on your own is not easy, but it is a worthwhile experience.
You will have this sense of belonging, accomplishment, and empowerment.
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